Why I am pregnant so soon?

I am really fed up answering people why I am pregnant so soon?. It’s my life and I have all rights to have a baby. Still I couldn’t tell them all that, as it would sound arrogant.

So here are few reasons why I am pregnant.

1. I am already 26 years old, my hubby is 31. I don’t want to look like a grandma to the kid; I want to be her mother.
2. I consider 26 is right age for me to have a healthy baby without complications.
3. I feel that I am having a secured job. I and my husband earn enough to take care of the baby and its expense
4. I and my husband feel that we have all our life to enjoy. We consider that having a baby around is more enjoyable than anything else.
5. I feel that my parents and in-laws are becoming old with various medical exertions. So, it’s better for me to have a baby and get their support now.
6. Only if have a baby now, I can plan to have a second one before I turn 30.
7. Before I loose the attention as a new bride, I wanted to renew the pampering by becoming pregnant.
8. As I am staying away from my husband because of our jobs, I wanted an excuse to stay with him.
9. As my sis is in 10^th standard, I wanted to have the baby during her holidays. So, I don’t disturb her or my parents during her +2 or college admissions.

Hence, I would declare that my baby is not a fluke baby, its planned baby. I am happy to have my due date, just after my first anniversary. J. So people stop bothering that I am pregnant so soon. I feel like to be this fertile.

weekend with nail art...

I went out with hubby for last check up in vizag. Entering the third trimester makes me feel a little nervous. Doctor said everything is normal. I have put on another 3 kgs.. good that it is all baby’s weight and I have not put on fat. I am all pleased putting on weight now.

After the check up, I went to the nearby mall. I happened to see a telugu movie. Though movie was not good, I enjoyed pop-corn and coke. Don’t know, when again I will be in theatre ? looks like, it would take a long time for me see a movie in theatre.

Nail art: in the same mall, I saw this poster. I was so thrilled that I decided to get my nails painted. I was imagining that, they would take a size”0” brush. Take some paint and do some strokes on nail. I was actually ignorant on it. I realised after the seeing the kit, that they a stencil and stamping machine. I was all confused which design to get done. I was very specific and was trying my own design and colour combination there. The lady was so patient with me, though i asked to remove the nail polish thrice, made her try a design and asked to remove it as I didn’t like it. I asked her to take a rose flower design from one template and butterfly from other and put it in small nail.

Now that nail art went on well, I am scared to do any activity using my hands. I don’t want all the efforts to go waste. So, now I am taking care of my nails with great concern. J

Comparison of MIL and MOM

On a Saturday morning.

Me: (sleeping till 7.30 in the morning)

MOM: get up madam, I have lots of work to do. If u take bath, I can put ur cloths for wash.

MIL: (in case I open my eyes to see the time) sleep, it’s a holiday. What will you do getting up early?

While having breakfast.

ME: I am hungry, what is there for breakfast.

MOM: I am not running any hotel to give you menu. Eat what is kept.

MIL: its dosa. ( and she serves them hot. In fact brings them one by one to living room, where is it)

Note: though mom is arrogant, she makes better crisp dosa’s.

When I have to take headbath.

ME: Now a days, I am feeling giddy if stay in the bathroom for long

MOM: that is why I ask u to eat properly. U never listen to me.. Blah Blah..

MIL: shall I help you by washing your hair?

When I have to apply oil

Me: I have long hair; can anybody help me with Oil session?

MOM: people have to their own work. When you don’t help me with kitchen chores, how do you expect me to do anything for you?

MIL: come here, let me help you.

Lunch time.

Me: I am not hungry.

MOM: don’t say that. You should eat for the baby inside you. Ok tell me, what you want me to make. In facts feeds me.

MIL: (takes it an excuse) ok, then let me make only rasam today.

Evening.

Me: I am feeling bored.

MOM: ok, come let’s go out for a walk or shopping

MIL: it’s getting dark outside, let’s stay back at home and watch TV.

Night.

Me: what is for dinner?

MOM: let’s make something interesting or go out and eat.

MIL: I want to watch TV program, can you cook?

Final conclusion is, both Mom and MIL are unpredictable. They keep changing their behaviour, and I am the only lazy one constant. At times, mom is really good, but expects back help from me. Mom is all enthusiastic like me, outspoken. MIL is good, helpful. MIL can mould according to situation, please me and get work done by me.

note: my mom scolded me for no reason, i am so angry with her. hence this post.

50kg TAJMAHAL ( me)

I have become 50kgs. Yes, it was my dream to put on weight and touch 50.. I have been trying to put on for past 6 to 7 years..

Efforts by me to put on weight:

1. Eating lots of ghee, kind of finished a bottle a week
2. I used to sleep in afternoon after a heavy lunch
3. I used to have pizza with extra cheese on all weekends
4. I used to eat lots of banana’s
5. I used to eat rice all three times a day
6. I used to eat plain cheese cubes
7. I used to eat sweets, though I prefer spicy food

But nothing worked. Everybody around me were jealous, as I eat a lot but don’t put on weight. Finally one of my friends told,” ondana gudu ava”( if u become pregnant, u will put on weight). Finally the tip worked.. I have put on 5 kgs . hoping to put on another 5 kgs by end of my trimester. J

Note: I hope not to put on anymore than that. Or else it would be difficult reduce later..